d.o.b. 23 January 1989, 4:30 am Ludhiana

Sir, first of all thank you for you answer ?? . After watching many astrology videos on YouTube. I understand that whenever 5th lord goes in the 7th house there is love marriage. also, 7th lord venus is going in the 2nd house (sag) .. opposite to this is Gemini Sign, so I understand that at the time of the first meeting with the spouse Gemini related signs will be there example twins, communication, or online social media.

my 7th lord is in the 2nd house of poorvashada nakshatra conjunct Saturn and Venus is in the 9th house of the Navamsa own sign, also jupiter darakaraka is in the kritika nakshatra .. is it okay to say that my would be spouse could be someone I meet online or through family, is artistic, or loves food or has beautiful voice, or things related to kritika nakshatra?

venus conjunction with Saturn, is this going to give him a lil harsh speech?

From love marriage I meant by knowing someone rather than getting married to a complete stranger. I am definitely not going to cross lines before marriage, I hope I know the person very well because of my flacky, angry, aloof and sensitive nature I am worried a little bit.

Also, my darakaraka is debilitated in the 12th house of navmansh and it is sitting with Rahu and Moon, 7th house of Navamsa also has saturn in it, Mars in the 5th house of Romance. I have witnessed and been through domestic violence in the past, is my married life going to be okay?

in the mean time I am just going to focus on my studies and career which is related to law (I am self employed).

thank you again sir, I have watched many astrology videos online to understand my own chart. I am still learning.