Name: BHAVYA SAHU
DOB: 17/06/2000 (Saturday)
Place born: Bhilai, Chhattishgarh
Very much puzzled in life, it feels like I have no control over my mind and life. Everything feels unfair sometimes. There is so much of mental and emotional pain.
Just need some guidance and hope for the future.
Please share birth time as well. However, from the chart attached: Learning to let go of control is an important lesson in this life for you. You have patience and wisdom, learn to use them to your advantage. Do not get stuck between weighing pros and cons for so long that the opportunity itself isRead more
Please share birth time as well. However, from the chart attached:
Learning to let go of control is an important lesson in this life for you. You have patience and wisdom, learn to use them to your advantage. Do not get stuck between weighing pros and cons for so long that the opportunity itself is gone, or your conclusion loses its value. You also have a tendency to keep a vision for the long term, this is good – but your 8th house is prominent, so you have to learn to adapt to sudden changes quickly. Also you imagine a lot of fears and negative outcomes – the situation in your imagination is worse than it is in reality – this is the perfect method to increase stress and anxiety, avoid doing this.
You may feel stuck at times but this is because you are not willing to change or not trying to see the situation from a new perspective. 8th house is a place without any control, without any light, without any senses – you feel frustrated because you try to use your 5 senses here. Meditation and yoga will help you – that is one big benefit of this combination. Listen to Osho a little every day – it will really help you.
The good thing about 8th house is that it gives you the first taste of freedom and flying if you let go of fear – it gives you a taste of liberation and the 12th house. On the inside, you already know life is not in control – then why worry? Try to do your best and just leave the outcome to god, take life as it comes.
Also there is a tendency to hold onto emotions for too long – that is not good – learn to release feelings (good and bad) within appropriate time, else they get converted into obsession (Rahu in Cancer – person can be obsessive – plus there is aspect of Saturn, plus your lagna is Scorpio). Try not to keep secrets / suppress emotions due to fear of betrayal etc. Explore and embrace vulnerability in a way that suits you – that is the way to set yourself free. I think journaling or writing down your emotions and then discarding the paper will be a helpful thing to begin with. Also if you feel detached from friends or feel you cannot trust them, try a counsellor – they are quite helpful.
Frequent donations will be beneficial to you. Do not store broken/old/useless items even if you have some emotional value attached to it.
And finally, accept yourself as you are and take the journey of growth from there. If you try to suppress any aspect of yourself, it will simply not work. Do not try to perfect yourself or your life because everything is already perfect. Just take one step at a time and keep faith in god đŸ™‚