Hi,

I have had this question since childhood. I never received any kind of attention from my father. He is just there. He never bothers about what is happening with me or my mother or in the family. He never actively participated in any occasions relating to family or in my upbringing until my mother fights and begs him to do something.  My mother and her family are whom I get all the help, love, and attention from. I or we (me and mother) are not close to father’s family either.

I am not on good terms with him either since high school. Because he is never emotionally available as a father. He was never there when my mother was in difficult situations and on top of that he verbally abuses her and doesn’t respect her for what she has done for him, the family or still doing.

And I do not like his character (he talks ill about other women, doesn’t respect others and thinks what he saying or doing is the right thing even though there is solid evidence that he is not). He is a difficult person to talk to and be with. Too proud and shows off while my mother and her family is a lower middle class and very humble.

The more I want to have a mature talk with him and sort this out, the more I hate him and can’t stand him or be with him under the same roof. I can’t stand the sight of him.

May I know if is there any explanation and/or solution for this astrologically? Why do I have to face this character in my life?

I am born on 1st July 1994 at 8.46 pm in Chennai, Tamil Nadu.

Thank you.