My wife went to Canada for her education in August 23rd, 2022. We had a huge fight on Oct 11th, 2022 due to miscommunication & bringing up of past issues. It’s just one fight on one call. She blocked me everywhere herself & people around her in Canada without even a discussion. I’ve reached out to her in all the ways. She was so happy & adored me till a week before the fight. She started hiding things from me in the week and after the fight on the call, she totally disappeared.
I approached her mom to soothe her, but her mom had an argument with her as she said that now she doesn’t want this marriage. This is her 2nd marriage. Out of anger, mom promised not to talk to her for 2 years because of this. I tried to approach her through our common contacts, she warned them all not to interfere.
We have a daughter (born out of her previous marriage). But I love my wife and my daughter more than my life. Whatever I do and have is for them. This is our 1st such fight in 3 and half years together. After her dad expired & her 1st marriage fell apart & she was in depression, I gave up my career plans & higher education for her and helped her complete her discontinued graduation & sent her abroad.
She cried & begged her mama in Canada, to support her. And gave him her own version of story. He is flying to India in a week & trying to end things between us by convincing her family.
Her mom is an uneducated widow, looking at her late husband’s photo & crying about this situation. She is unable to take all this & started having health issues. Her brother doesn’t care anything about her, as he is stuck in a financial crisis.
I have a week to try & solve this. I don’t want my daughter’s life to be disturbed due to my wife’s lack of foresight. She loves me more than her mom. I can’t leave her life alone in the hands of people, who take such life decisions in 5 mins anger.
Please help ??
I want to know the truth whether she is coming back and whether I still have my family & marriage.
My details: Rohith, 3rd Nov 1994, 4:14 PM (16:14), Vijayawada, India.
My wife’s details: Lakshmi, 4th Dec 1998, 1:00 PM (13:00), Tirupati, India.